“It wasn’t the intention of the complaints procedure to mentally destroy the people who filed a complaint. But the lawyers of the opposing party did their best to simply break those people, by pretending that it was a legal case. They legalised everything and that was not what this procedure was about. So I don’t […]
Read more“It just cost me, I had to start bringing up all kinds of things that they [the Complaints Committee] just literally wanted to hear out of my mouth” – Annette
“I had to be heard, of course, so the committee came all the way from Amsterdam to the closed institute in Tilburg to sit in a closed ward. . . . So in itself that people took the trouble [coming to me], but it actually only cost me. Because I was in a really bad […]
Read moreSome also said: “I already have enough on my plate, I don’t need that {your story} added to it.” – Sandra
“Within the mediation procedure there was a possibility to have a conversation together with my children, but the children rejected that possibility and so did my family. But it was possible so that was very nice. And would I still want it now, I think it is still possible but maybe I would have to […]
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