“{My husband said:} “Now I just get it.” – Mieke


{ . . . } my husband was shocked. “Well I understand some of your reactions too.” I never noticed that myself, but when he’s standing in the kitchen and I approached him, he used to rub me along the buttock and then I would jump away. {My husband said:} “Now I just get it.

relational redressThe role of redress procedures in social relationshipsself-awareness and understanding – better understanding relatives

RELATIONAL REDRESS

Self-awareness and understanding

Actor: Mieke
Item type: Quote from interview
Date: […]
DoJ Researcher: Naomi Ormskerk
DoJ Research project: [Sexual] abuse – The church (PhD)
Language: English


Context

In 2010, the disclosure of several cases of sexual abuse in institutions operated by the Dutch Catholic Church, ignited a national political debate and led to public outrage. With the disclosure of the abuse, victim- survivors demanded justice from Church authorities and the state. Nevertheless, the available justice measures are invariably solely aimed at primary victims. Whilst relatives are often concurrently named with survivors in redress schemes, it is not evident if and how multi-level narratives are established in justice measures. How do primary and secondary victims – such as family members, partners, and children of victim-survivors – experience justice measures allotted by the Church and the state? And what are ‘lessons learned’ when comparing two seemingly different cases of clergy abuse, namely (sexual) abuse in Church institutions and forced labour of former pupils of the Congregation of the Good Shepherd?


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“{My husband said:} “Now I just get it.” – Mieke


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